Men of 21st century

Being a man in the past  was simple thing ,you left school got job ,got married had children drunk heavily had an extra affair ,play golf smoke your pipe never speak about your feeling under any circumstances and die of heart attack at the age of 56 ,it make look absurd to you know but that is how men were portrayed in past  .

Things have changed now ,in  this century a man is what he looks like. being giants or having beard like barbarians are considered to be the sign of manhood. following culture blindly till they go bald, and after then it’s too late to generate the instinct of a man a aroma so rare that was once pursued by men ,now a day’s boys don’t become man instead they learn it through , and this is so that  woman think them as man ,and woman like mediocre man and that is what boys are becoming today having a girl as a center of their life ,things are different now ‘I  am a feminist ‘ but I am also a man ,they behave like following feminism but also want to feel like man .

I’m not sure when I first came through this term “mansplaining” – where  actually a man explain something condescendingly to a woman – but I do know in my gut as soon as I became aware of it I felt terrified that I’d inadvertently done it at some point. 

Masculinity in many culture is  tied to the fears and hopes of today’s  society. As our today’s men hope  become more amorphous, so too does the “purpose” of masculinity. Young men have given up on the dream of the job-for-life, house, kids, Alsatian and quadruple gold-plated pension, they get depress at the age of 25 because of not getting success in life ,what they don’t understand is that being a man is not just about pushups and charm it is about taking responsibilities ,and not about being ignorant and careless which sets example of a puny man .

   But what I think  is that a fundamental change in masculine values is just the flip side of equality. Just like men should  fight for, support and celebrate female progress .we must help one another as we enter the next stage of our cultural elite. If we do, maybe our personal masculine crises will give way to personal masculine identities all of our own. What have we got to lose by trying this? Nothing but our ever-increasing sense of worthlessness.

Remember that it is by falling free and confronting our inner core which is the fuel to our man soul we can achieve the true aroma which we have as blessing for our true manhood ,